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  • Exclusive After-Hours Party VIP Experience at Popular Napa Valley Wine Bar: In Napa, CA

    Cadet Wine + Beer Bar

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    Exclusive After-Hours Party VIP Experience at Popular Napa Valley Wine Bar

    Gather a group of your favorite wine lovers for an after-hours fête at Cadet Wine + Beer Bar, where you’ll get the VIP treatment with wine, salumi, and cheese tastings — and guest DJ honors.

    Napa, CA

    10-20 people

    10-20 people

    2 hours

    Cadet Wine & Beer Bar Map it

    US$100/person Total US$1,000

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      The Experience

      Enjoy a VIP night out in the epicenter of wine — downtown Napa Valley — at locals’ favorite Cadet Wine and Beer Bar with an exclusive after-hours party for your group. IfOnly has unlocked access to a reserved table on Cadet’s sleek patio, large enough for a group of 10 to 20. You'll savor a curated selection of wine from Cadet’s sommelier, plus local salumi and cheese pairings. You’ll also act as the guest DJ for the evening, setting the playlist from Cadet’s library of vinyl records — or bring your own. This exclusive IfOnly experience is perfect for wine lovers looking to celebrate a birthday or milestone event together in one of Napa’s hottest wine spots. A portion of this experience benefits Tipping Point.  


      • Reserved patio table at exclusive after-hours party at Cadet Wine and Beer Bar; your group will enjoy a curated selection of wines plus salumi and cheese pairings
      • Experience is for 10-20 guests
      • All guests must be at least 21 years old
      • Experience lasts 2 hours
      • Experience is only available on a Thursday, Friday, or Saturday

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